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		<title>Happy Monday</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Apr 2010 13:37:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I don&#8217;t know why I thought I would be blogging this weekend.  It was my birthday.  I spent the day, Saturday, with my family.  It was wonderful.  I think that was the best birthday I ever had.  It was peaceful &#8230; <a href="http://shatternicely.com/2010/04/happy-monday/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I don&#8217;t know why I thought I would be blogging this weekend.  It was my birthday.  I spent the day, Saturday, with my family.  It was wonderful.  I think that was the best birthday I ever had.  It was peaceful &#8211; which is rarely the case, with three boys &#8211; and the weather was beautiful.</p>
<p>Sunday, I spent the day making Parisian macaroons.  You can see them at my <a href="http://allthingsholdtogether.com/blog/2010/04/11/parisian-macarons/" target="_blank">other blog</a>, if you want.</p>
<p>So, what did you do this weekend?</p>
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		<title>If I Didn&#8217;t Have You</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 14 Feb 2010 19:32:44 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="color: #ff0000;">Happy Valentine&#8217;s Day</span> from <em>Shatter Nicely</em>!</p>
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		<title>All Apologies</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 28 Jan 2010 01:08:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I was listening to that song the other day on my iPod.  I forgot how much I loved Nirvana.  I am still trying to forgive myself and stop feeling like such an idiot for swearing off secular music for the &#8230; <a href="http://shatternicely.com/2010/01/all-apologies/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I was listening to that song the other day on my iPod.  I forgot how much I loved Nirvana.  I am still trying to forgive myself and stop feeling like such an idiot for swearing off secular music for the past 5 years.  At least I saved one Nirvana CD, the black album.</p>
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<p>On a side note, <em>hello</em>, did you know about this lala thing?  What a freaking awesome thing.  I can embed a song on my blog.  How much does <em>that</em> rock?</p>
<p>Back to the apologies.</p>
<p>First up, I am sorry to tell you this, but remember that <a href="http://shatternicely.com/2010/01/things-i-would-like-to-blog-about/" target="_blank">list of things I wanted to blog about</a> that I posted the other day?  Well, I am not going to blog about them right now.  I know, <em>I know</em>.  They have a name for girls like that.  I&#8217;m sorry.  I shouldn&#8217;t have set up the expectation if I wasn&#8217;t going to follow through.  It&#8217;s not really fair to you, dear reader.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s just that I felt like taking a little detour and blogging about how I became a Christian and how I came to leave Christianity.  No one really knows the whole story.  I just really feel like now is the time.  I am at a place where I need to put these things together for myself, so I might as well post it for all the world to see, right?</p>
<p>I&#8217;ll tell you what, though.  I will go back through that list and add links where appropriate.  Here goes.</p>
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<li>I listened to a great podcast today about <a href="http://www.pointofinquiry.org/michael_shermer_science_skepticism_and_libertarianism/" target="_blank">skepticism and libertarianism</a>.</li>
<li><a href="http://althouse.blogspot.com/2010/01/i-had-no-idea-he-was-going-to-do-that-i.html" target="_blank">Glenn Beck is a total creep</a>.  No, I mean more so than you thought. (Added: I have to question what is in the mind of a man who got to that quote from that video.)</li>
<li>Thoughts about the blog, by <a href="http://nolongerquivering.com/" target="_blank">a woman who left the Quiverfull/Patriarchy movement</a>, that I have been obsessively reading.</li>
<li><a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UXut0HxncvY" target="_blank">A video a Christian friend sent me</a> and stuff it brought up about my Christian experience.</li>
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<p>I will still probably blog about those things, except the Glenn Beck one, which speaks for itself.</p>
<p>In sooth, I will probably not blog about the Mass. election.  What&#8217;s there to say at this point that someone else hasn&#8217;t already said and better?  The Moran Plant, again, probably not, but hey, at least 99.9% of you couldn&#8217;t give a crap, since it&#8217;s such a local issue.</p>
<p>I am so totally going to blog about Billy Corgan and Jessica Simpson because (1) I think it&#8217;s funny, (2) I ♥ Smashing Pumpkins, and (3) I will eventually want to break up the serious posts with something light.</p>
<p>And, I will publish my currently-in-draft post about dogmatism that uses radical unschoolers as a non-religious example.  But maybe not.  I don&#8217;t want to attract too much hate.</p>
<p>I already wrote my first post about how I became a Christian at the age of 28.  I need to re-read it and obsessively edit it and add some bling, but it will be posted tonight or tomorrow morning.</p>
<p>The other apology-related thing has to do with the post, <a href="http://mysistersfarmhouse.com/2010/01/former-christian-apologizes-for-being-such-a-huge-shit-head-for-all-those-years/" target="_blank">Former Christian Apologizes for Being Such a Huge Shit Head for All Those Years</a>, from My Sister&#8217;s Farmhouse.</p>
<p>I have been feeling lately like I need to issue a public apology to homosexuals (and a few private ones to people I know who were personally offended by my beliefs), and probably some other groups, too.  Her #1 totally applies to me word for word.</p>
<blockquote><p>1.  I apologize to all the homosexuals.  I am sorry that I believed in a religion that condemns you.  I am sorry that for many years I thought that the bible was right in it’s condemnation of homosexuality.  I am sorry that when I no longer thought the bible was right about homosexuality being a sin, I did not raise a gigantic stink about it every Sunday right in the middle of the sermon… <em>week after week after week</em>…  until the church issued a restraining order against me and I could no longer come within a hundred feet of the sanctuary.</p></blockquote>
<p>Not everything on her list applies to me, but it&#8217;s worth reading.</p>
<p>What a wonderful and brave woman to take responsibility for those things.</p>
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		<title>Foundation Beyond Belief</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 01 Jan 2010 13:06:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[It has always been my firm belief that we need to take care of each other directly and not wait around for the government to do it for us.  Back when I was a Christian, I supported many Christian charitable &#8230; <a href="http://shatternicely.com/2010/01/foundation-beyond-belief/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It has always been my firm belief that we need to take care of each other directly and not wait around for the government to do it for us.  Back when I was a Christian, I supported many Christian charitable organizations and often shared links to those organizations with my blog readers.</p>
<p>Well, charitable organizations need not be Christian, but finding ones that don&#8217;t mix the Good News with their good deeds can be harder to find.  That is why I am delighted to present to you <a href="http://foundationbeyondbelief.org" target="_blank">Foundation Beyond Belief</a>, an organization designed to make it easier for atheists and secular humanists to unite as a force for good in our world.</p>
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<div style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Verdana,Geneva,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">Foundation Beyond Belief is a non-profit charitable and educational foundation created (1) to focus, encourage and demonstrate the generosity and compassion of atheists and humanists, and (2) to provide a comprehensive education and support program for nontheistic parents.</span></div>
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<div style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Verdana,Geneva,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">The Foundation will feature ten charitable organizations per quarter.</span></div>
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<div style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Verdana,Geneva,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">Members join by signing up for a monthly automatic donation in the amount of their choice, and distribute it however they wish among the categories. Contributions are fully tax-deductible.</span></div>
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<div style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Verdana,Geneva,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">Members can join a social network and forums centered on the ten categories of giving, advocate for causes, and help us choose new beneficiaries each quarter.</span></div>
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<div style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Verdana,Geneva,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">Featured beneficiaries may be founded on any worldview so long as they do not proselytize. At the end of each quarter, 100 percent of the donations are forwarded and a new slate of beneficiaries selected.</span></div>
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<div style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Verdana,Geneva,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">On the educational side, the Foundation will help create and fund local groups for the education and social support of humanist/atheist parents.</span></div>
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<div style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Verdana,Geneva,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><strong>Our Mission:</strong><span> </span>To demonstrate humanism at its best by supporting efforts to improve this world and this life; to challenge humanists to embody the highest principles of humanism, including mutual care and responsibility; and to help and encourage humanist parents to raise confident children with open minds and compassionate hearts.</span></div>
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<p>Watch this short video to learn more.  Then head on over to the <a href="http://foundationbeyondbelief.org" target="_blank">Foundation Beyond Belief</a> website to join.</p>
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